Hypocritical Cheaters

            I’ve been noticing and not understanding something that most people often try and defend and as well as justify. And it’s something called CHEATING. Hopefully you all know by now that this blog focuses on not only me, but this generation as well and how things are questionable; For instance, cheating. And to most of us we would not think a second thought of doing such to someone we are with and love, right? That’s what I thought. We already discussed what I think is a respectable, standard, real relationship and all that good stuff, but now it’s time to talk about people and some things they believe are right when there just wrong. It’s time to talk about something I like to call “Hypocritical Cheaters.”

First, let’s talk about cheating.

            Cheating to me is a poor excuse to purposely jeopardize something good you have with someone you obviously “somewhat” care about, because if you fully cared about them than you would have never jeopardized your relationship in the first place. People often call it an “accident”, or when their caught in the act, “it’s not what it looks like.” Well, cheating is never an accident, bumping into someone not knowing they were behind you is an accident, and seeing your boyfriend/girlfriend having sex with someone that’s not you, well that’s exactly what it looks like. I think cheating on your spouse, partner, boyfriend, girlfriend is wrong no matter how you may put it. You don’t belong in a relationship if you still plan on acting like your single. It’s just no way. You obviously got into a relationship from the beginning because you wanted to devote and dedicate all your time and energy to one person and one person only, so why would you waste time by cheating? Why people cheat is something I will never understand. I’ve bought this conversation up to someone and it leads me to my next point.

Cheating:Hypocrits

            So one day I was talking to someone (whose name I will not say), and we were talking about her and her boyfriend, and cheating happens to come up. She said something like “If your boyfriend isn’t paying you enough attention, its “alright” to cheat.” And so I suggested “That’s when you talk to him about how you feel.” And the whole conversation went on like that until I had to basically give up because she just kept going and justifying her position. My whole thing is, people in this generation often say one thing and then go do another, and that’s what a typical hypocrite is. Some girls complain about their boyfriends and how they know he has other females on the side, but they don’t do anything about it, and then they go out and have other boys on the side which is where I get confused. You complain and complain about him and his other girls, but you still stay, knowing what he’s doing and you go do the same thing. And that’s where this saying “two wrongs don’t make a right” comes into play but nobody seems to understand that anymore. Everyone screams they want someone loyal, but turns around and is untrustworthy. I never liked hypocrites, you can’t say one thing than do another, it’s just not right. So when it comes to being a hypocrite cheater, it’s just as wrong.

             Instead of working things out, some people rather sit there and do the same thing that’s being done to them. It’s like their trying to teach their own wrong lesson. And I’ve been told because I’m a still a virgin and “not out there,” I don’t understand. But that’s one thing about me, I do understand because I watch the people around me, I watch the mistakes they make, the choices they choose, and I analyze them, and I interpret them in my own ways and I learn from them. There’s nothing wrong with making a mistake, it’s what life is all about, but when you purposely make one, there’s no way you can justify it.