It's been almost two years since I published the blog "Being a Virgin in 2013," and it has become one of my most successful blogs ever since I've created Virginity Forreal. Now two years later, nothing has changed. I'm still holding on to my "Gold" (view blog "A Golden Girls Letter). I'm 22 years old, almost a senior in college, and my views and thoughts about sex, has not changed much. I still believe in waiting for someone who understands me as a person, and understands what I stand for when it comes to the decisions I've made.
People tend to not understand how hard being a virgin really is, especially of today's generation. With all of the things these girls let the these guys get away with, it's hard to trust and find a self-respecting man, let a lone one who respects a woman. They believe in what one girl is like, the next one will be like that too. This generation has nothing but quick money scheme boys who will buy you a quick meal from McDonalds but only if you're willing to have sex with him first. And the way I see it, it's low budget prostitution. And some girls are the same way. We got girls who want boys to buy them this bag or these shoes before they have sex with him. It's like that's the only way to show some appreciation for buying her something; like that's her only way of saying thank you. There's nothing wrong with a man buying something for his girl, that's not what I'm saying, but it's something wrong when I have to have sex with you when I want to spend some quality time with you, or grab a bite to eat. There's something wrong when a girl can only show her thanks to someone by sleeping with them. Whatever happened to a man wanting to get to know a woman by taking her out to dinner? Whatever happened to simple dating? What happened to men being men, doing something because you want to, not because you know it'll get you some guaranteed sex. I know sex is important, and a big part of life, I get that, but when will people stop using it as some sort of exchange for something that's less of it's value?
So when people ask me why haven't I had sex yet, or what I'm waiting for, I'll be glad to tell them I'm waiting for a man. One who wants to get to know me, my mind and what goals I have for myself. And people might read this and think "you're only saying this because you don't know how good sex can be." And you could be absolutely right, but I know there's a possibility that the sex could be even better when we know we're right for one another. (Stay tuned for "The Friend Zone" blog coming next).
Yes Girl someone who believes the same thing I do. I'm still a virgin and I'm almost 23. I want go wait for that right person or someone who can support me in what I am doing with my life. We went to new media together. In high school I was vigin there too. I attend to keep my virginity until I find my Mr.Right.
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